I believe all of us struggle with decision-making from time to time, being it simple day-to-day life decisions or big stuff that have the power to radically change the direction of our lives. We are afraid to take the leap, to make the decision, however small or big it is, because what if something better comes up and we already chose or what if we are making a wrong decision and would later look back and repent ourselves... We go to our friends, co-workers, family, therapist searching the approval for making the decision or looking for an advice and even though there’s nothing intrinsically wrong with those actions, they are useful only and uniquely in a sense that they can reveal to us the “right decision” that we already know. Because, the things is: we always now. Deep within our inner space, underneath all the racing thoughts and our obsessions with logical explanations for every and each step we take - there’s a knowing that is never wrong. If we go to a friend to help us with making a decision and after hearing their opinion we feel relief - that’s the sign we’re on the right path.
Guys, we all DO know. We just forget how to trust ourselves, sometimes we forget how to hear our inner knowing whispering to us because we are surrounded with so much fucking noise, voices running one on top of the other - which of those are my thoughts? which are theirs? is this my authentic behaviour or something I picked up along the way to help me blend in?
It can get rough, I know. But I want to remind you and above all - I want to remind myself - that all the possible answers already lie within us and the only thing there’s to do is to silence down, tune in, spend some time alone without distractions and make the space for the answers to come up to the surface.
There were many little-big decision during this week I was so certain about but afraid to act upon because of the possible disapproval of others, even though everything was very clear and I knew what I needed in the moment to best serve and soothe myself.
After saying “fuck it” and just doing the things my way, following the gut-feeling, I found myself in front of wonderful and unexpected new revelations and experiences that Universe sent me as a confirmation that I am on the “right way”, that there is a way of ease and flow and it is not hard to find, it is very close to us at all times, we just need to tune into it and have faith and courage to trust it and give in to it.
Hope you learned some valuable soul lessons this week as well <3
Lots of love,